God bless the pacifiers...or what's now known as the Benke. "Where's the Benke" is becoming one of the clarion cries of a new parent. It's not that Liam and Leila cry alot, but when they do, the Benke starts to take on heroic qualities. Trust me! That's not to suggest we don't feel guity as heck putting the pacifier in their mouth. It's worse that stiffling free speech. It's like total suppression of one's natural voice.